Proverbs and what they mean
Old sayings, their meanings, and a search that finds the right one for what a character wants to say.
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200 familiar proverbs
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- a bad workman always blames his tools
- It is not the tools we use that make us good, but rather how we employ them.
- a bird in the hand is worth two in the bush
- A sure thing is preferable to the mere chance at something more.
- a burnt child dreads the fire dated
- A person harmed by something becomes more cautious about it.
- a chain is only as strong as its weakest link
- An organization is only as strong or powerful as its weakest person; a group of associates is only as competent as its laziest member.
- a friend in need is a friend indeed
- If a friend helps one when one is in need, that person is a true friend.
- a journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step
- Even the longest and most difficult ventures have a starting point.
- a leopard cannot change its spots
- One cannot change one's own nature.
- a lie has no legs
- One cannot get away with a lie.
- a man is known by the company he keeps
- People are similar in character to their friends.
- a new broom sweeps clean
- New management will often make radical changes.
- a picture is worth a thousand words
- A visualisation is a better description than a verbal description.
- a rolling stone gathers no moss
- A person who never settles in one place will never be successful.
- a stitch in time saves nine
- A little effort expended sooner to fix a small problem prevents it from becoming a larger problem requiring more effort to fix later.
- absence makes the heart grow fonder
- One feels more love or affection for those one loves when parted from them.
- actions speak louder than words
- It is more effective to act directly than to speak of action.
- all cats are grey in the dark
- Under some circumstances, individual distinctions are not relevant.
- all good things come to an end
- Nothing good lasts forever.
- all roads lead to Rome
- Different paths can take one to the same goal.
- all that glitters is not gold
- Things that appear valuable or worthwhile might not actually be so; things that appear nice might not be as good as they appear.
- all the world's a stage
- People have roles to play in life just as actors do in the theatre.
- all's fair in love and war
- Unpleasant behavior is acceptable during love and conflict.
- all's well that ends well
- A happy ending makes up for everything that has happened before.
- an apple a day keeps the doctor away
- Apples are healthy and stave off illnesses.
- an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth
- compensation for injury caused by a person, in the form of inflicting of an identical injury on that person.
- any port in a storm
- One should accept any passable option when time is of the essence in an adverse situation.
- appearances are deceptive
- It is not possible to judge a person's character from their outward appearance.
- as you make your bed, so you must lie in it
- One will carry negative consequences of one's previous action(s).
- as you sow, so shall you reap
- The consequences of one's actions to oneself are in proportion to one's good or bad intentions towards others.
- attack is the best form of defence British
- In a battle or dispute, attacking the opposition first is better than waiting for them to attack.
- barking dogs seldom bite
- People who make threats rarely carry them out.
- beauty is in the eye of the beholder
- Different people have different views on what is beautiful; beauty is subjective.
- beggars can't be choosers
- Something is better than nothing: those who can't provide for themselves should accept whatever help is available.
- behind every successful man there stands a woman
- A man’s achievements are made possible by the support and work of their wife or female partner.
- better late than never
- It is better to do something late, than to never do it at all.
- better safe than sorry
- It is preferable to be cautious in one's choices and actions than to act recklessly and suffer afterwards.
- better the devil you know than the devil you don't know
- Something bad and familiar is better than something bad and unknown.
- birds of a feather flock together
- People of similar character, background or taste tend to congregate or associate with one another; it is easier to establish friendships with people that one has a lot in common with.
- blood is thicker than water
- Family relations and loyalties are stronger than relationships with people who are not family members.
- brevity is the soul of wit
- Conciseness of expression is an essential characteristic of astute, perceptive, or witty remarks.
- business before pleasure
- Discharging one's obligations must take precedence over devoting time to pursuits meant solely for one's own gratification.
- carpe diem
- Enjoy the present, make the most of today, (common mistranslation) seize the day.
- clothes don't make the man
- One cannot accurately judge a person solely by their appearance.
- crime doesn't pay
- If you commit a crime you will most likely be punished for it.
- curiosity killed the cat
- One should not be curious about things that can be dangerous.
- dead men tell no tales
- A dead person can no longer reveal information, especially information which others wish to keep secret.
- desperate times call for desperate measures
- In adverse circumstances, actions that might have been rejected under other circumstances may become the best choice.
- do as I say and not as I do
- Do not imitate my behavior but obey my instructions.
- do unto others as you would have them do unto you
- One should treat others as one would like others to treat oneself; an expression of the golden rule.
- don't count your chickens before they're hatched
- One should not depend upon a favorable (and typically overoptimistic) outcome to one's plans until it is certain to occur.
- don't look a gift horse in the mouth
- One should not unappreciatively question or inspect a gift too closely.
- don't shoot the messenger
- The bearer of bad news should not be held accountable for it.
- don't try to teach grandma how to suck eggs
- Don't presume to give advice to those who are more experienced.
- e pluribus unum
- "out of many, one" or "from many, one" (alternatively translated as "one out of many" or "one from many”)
- empty vessels make the most sound
- Talkative, opinionated people are often ignorant.
- even Homer nods
- Even the most vigilant and expert are fallible.
- every cloud has a silver lining
- There is something good in any bad situation.
- every dog has its day
- Everyone, at some point, experiences some degree of victory or success in life.
- every Jack has his Jill
- Everybody will eventually find a romantic partner.
- every little helps British
- Even small contributions towards a goal help bring the goal nearer.
- everything happens for a reason
- Used for consolation, possibly self-consolation, after someone has experienced something unfavorable or unpleasant, and hence an encouragement to make the best of the situation.
- experience is the best teacher
- Lessons learned from experience are the most lasting.
- familiarity breeds contempt
- A prolonged closeness or exposure or a profound knowledge of someone or something often leads to diminished respect or appreciation.
- finders, keepers
- Whoever finds something is allowed to keep it.
- forbidden fruit is the sweetest
- Forbidden things seem more appealing; people desire things more if (or, in some way, because) they can't have them.
- forewarned is forearmed
- Advance awareness of a situation, especially a risky one, prepares one to deal with it.
- fortune favors the bold
- Luck is usually on the side of those who take chances and risks.
- give them an inch and they'll take a mile
- Granting someone a limited concession will encourage them to take greater liberties.
- God helps those who help themselves
- Good fortune or providential aid comes to those who make an effort to accomplish things.
- good things come to those who wait
- A patient seeker will be satisfied in due time.
- grasp all, lose all
- One who wants everything may lose it all.
- great minds think alike
- Used to remark upon the fact that someone else has had the same thought or idea as you, implying that both of you are clever or astute.
- half a loaf is better than none
- Something is better than nothing: some reward, achievement, result, etc. is preferable to none at all.
- haste makes waste
- Being too hasty leads to wasteful mistakes.
- he who digs a pit for others falls in himself
- Someone that plans harm or misfortune for others may also inadvertently be the recipient of that same misfortune.
- he who laughs last laughs best
- Success is enjoyed more after having previously endured ridicule.
- he who smelt it dealt it informal
- A person who calls attention to or complains about a flatus is likely trying to pretend it wasn't their own.
- heaven helps those who help themselves
- A maxim encouraging people to attempt to solve their own problems.
- hindsight is 20/20
- In hindsight things are obvious that were not obvious from the outset; one is able to evaluate past choices more clearly than at the time of the choice.
- history repeats itself
- Things that have happened in the past will or tend to happen again in one way or another.
- honesty is the best policy
- Honesty is preferable as a course of action because it tends to work out best in the end.
- hope springs eternal
- The feeling of hopefulness endlessly renews itself.
- hunger is a good sauce dated
- Being hungry makes one less concerned about the taste of one's food.
- idle hands are the devil's workshop
- One who is idle will likely come to do evil.
- if it ain't broke, don't fix it
- It is wise to leave something alone and to avoid attempting to correct, fix, or improve what is already sufficient (often with an implication that is the attempted improvement is risky and might backfire).
- if the mountain won't come to Muhammad
- If something one wishes to be done cannot be commanded to be done, one must find another way to achieve one's goal.
- if the shoe fits, wear it
- If a description fits, it is probably the case; if an insult accurately describes you, you must bear it; if you take offence at an insult that was only implicitly directed at you, you admit the insult is true enough to…
- if you can't beat them, join them
- If one's adversaries are stronger, it is better to join their side.
- ignorance is bliss
- A lack of knowledge or awareness about certain facts or situations results in happiness or reduced anxiety.
- in for a penny, in for a pound British
- Expressing that, having begun something (that involves significant risk or effort), one intends to see it to completion rather than stopping short.
- in the land of the blind, the one-eyed man is king
- Even someone with limited abilities or opportunities is dominant over, and considered special by, those who have even fewer abilities and opportunities; the value of any ability depends on its prevalence.
- in wine, there is truth
- Statements made or expressed under the influence of alcohol reveal true beliefs that are not expressed when sober.
- it ain't over 'til the fat lady sings
- There are more developments yet to come; one should not presume to know the outcome of an event which is still in progress.
- it never rains but it pours
- Unfortunate events occur in quantity.
- it takes two to tango
- Some things need the active cooperation of two parties; blame is to be laid on both parties in a conflict.
- it's the thought that counts
- When giving someone a present or doing a favour for someone, the kindness behind the act is more important than any other consideration.
- justice delayed is justice denied
- If a wrong is not redressed within a reasonable time, it is as though the wrong were not redressed at all.
- know thyself
- Be aware of your own strengths and limitations.
- knowledge is power
- Scientia potentia est; with knowledge and/or education, one's potential or ability to succeed in the pursuit of one's objectives will certainly increase.
- like father, like son
- A son takes after his father.
- like mother, like daughter
- A daughter takes after her mother.
- live by the sword, die by the sword
- One who uses violence can expect a violent response; it is better to try to use peaceful means wherever possible.
- long absent, soon forgotten
- Love fades away when people are distant and do not maintain close physical contact.
- love is blind
- A person who is in love can see no faults or imperfections in the person whom they love.
- man proposes, God disposes
- Things do not always work out as they are planned.
- many a mickle makes a muckle Scottish
- A lot of small amounts, put together, become a large amount.
- many hands make light work
- A large number of people cooperating can perform tasks easily.
- might makes right
- What is right or wrong is determined by power and strength; power justifies itself.
- money does not smell
- The value of money is not affected by the business it comes from, even from the most unpleasant one.
- money doesn't grow on trees
- Wealth cannot be obtained without some effort; hence currency is not always available for a prospective purchase.
- money talks
- Money or moneyed interests have power.
- more haste, less speed
- When one is in a hurry, one often ends up having less success and completing a task more slowly.
- ne'er cast a clout till May be out British, dialect
- Do not change from winter clothes to summer clothes until June, as there is often a sudden cold snap in May.
- necessity is the mother of invention
- The primary driving force for most new inventions is a need.
- never put off until tomorrow what you can do today
- Do not procrastinate whatever that can be done today until tomorrow.
- no good deed goes unpunished
- Actions of generosity often go unappreciated or are met with outright hostility or demands for further work.
- no news is good news
- A lack of information reported about a situation suggests that nothing unfortunate has occurred.
- no pain, no gain
- One must be willing to endure some inconvenience or discomfort (e.g., hard work, risk, or both) in order to achieve worthwhile goals.
- no smoke without fire
- Gossip and accusations are often substantiated by fact.
- old habits die hard
- Established habits are difficult to change.
- once bitten, twice shy
- One is cautious if one has been hurt in the past.
- one swallow does not a summer make
- One instance of an event (such as the arrival of a single bird) does not necessarily indicate a trend.
- out of sight, out of mind
- When something is not nearby, it is forgotten about.
- patience is a virtue
- It is better to be patient than impatient.
- people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones
- One should not criticize others if one has similar weaknesses.
- physician, heal thyself
- One should attend to one's own flaws or defects before presuming to advise others about theirs.
- practice makes perfect
- If one practices an activity enough, one will eventually master it.
- prevention is better than cure
- It is better to prevent the creation of a problem than to have to deal with it afterwards.
- pride comes before a fall
- A person who is excessively proud will often suffer a setback or failure.
- revenge is a dish best served cold
- Revenge should not be rushed, because it must be calculated coolly or because it is most satisfying when delayed.
- Rome wasn't built in a day
- It takes a long time to create something complicated or impressive.
- see Naples and die
- One can die at peace after having seen Naples, Italy, nothing else on Earth surpassing its beauty.
- seeing is believing
- One needs to see something in order to believe it; visible facts cannot be denied.
- silence is golden
- Peace and quiet have great value.
- sow the wind, reap the whirlwind
- Every decision has consequences; a person's actions will come back to them; if one starts trouble or takes actions in spite of the discontent they cause, one will incur negative consequences.
- spare the rod and spoil the child
- If one does not discipline a child, they will never learn obedience and good manners.
- speech is silver, silence is golden
- Not saying anything is often better than speaking too much or saying something inappropriate.
- still waters run deep
- A person with a calm appearance has, or may have, considerable inner emotion, character, or intellect.
- sufficient unto the day is the evil thereof
- There is no need to worry about the future; the present provides enough to worry about.
- talk is cheap
- It is easy to make boastful or unrealistic statements which are not supported by actions or evidence.
- the apple does not fall far from the tree
- A child grows up to be similar to its parents, both in behavior and in physical characteristics.
- the chickens come home to roost
- A person's past wrongdoings will return to negatively affect them.
- the customer is always right
- Service staff should give high priority to customer satisfaction.
- the devil is in the details
- The specific provisions of, or particular steps for implementing, a general plan, policy, or contract may be complicated, controversial, or unworkable.
- the dogs bark, but the caravan goes on
- History (or progress) moves ahead, no matter the criticism it may attract.
- the early bird gets the worm
- Whoever arrives first has the best chance of success; some opportunities are available only to the first competitors.
- the end justifies the means
- Morally wrong actions are sometimes necessary to achieve morally right outcomes; actions can be considered morally right or wrong only by virtue of the morality of the outcome.
- the enemy of my enemy is my friend
- It is sometimes necessary to cooperate with a person one does not like or agree with, in order to combat a common threat.
- the fish rots from the head
- Bad leaders harm an organization.
- the grass is always greener on the other side
- The circumstances of others seem more desirable than one's own but in reality often are not.
- the more the merrier
- Something is more fun with more people.
- the pen is mightier than the sword
- More influence and power can be usurped by writing than by fighting.
- the proof of the pudding is in the eating
- One can only claim that something is a success after it has been tried out or used.
- the road to hell is paved with good intentions
- Well-intended acts can potentially lead to disasters.
- the shoemaker's children go barefoot
- One often neglects those closest to oneself; a tradesman may ironically neglect or postpone his own home's need for his trade's services.
- the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak
- As much as one wishes to achieve something, the frailties of the human body often make it impossible. Sometimes extended to jocular or organizational referents.
- the squeaky wheel gets the grease
- The person who complains or speaks up most loudly receives the redress or attention which they seek.
- the way to a man's heart is through his stomach
- Cooking food for a man is a good way to win his affections.
- the wolf may lose his teeth but never his nature
- One cannot change one's nature, no matter how much time passes.
- the world is someone's oyster
- All opportunities are open to someone; the world is theirs.
- there are plenty of fish in the sea
- There are many more potential opportunities available.
- there is an exception to every rule
- Usually said in a situation when the rule is incorrect and unusable.
- there is nothing new under the sun
- There is nothing truly novel in existence; every new idea has some sort of precedent or echo from the past.
- there's many a slip twixt cup and lip dated
- In any situation, however well planned, something can always go wrong.
- there's no accounting for taste
- In subjective matters of taste, people have wildly different opinions; disagreements about matters of taste cannot be objectively resolved.
- there's no fool like an old fool
- If a person does not develop wisdom with age, then their foolishness is all the more obvious and shameful.
- there's no place like home
- One feels most comfortable at home.
- third time is the charm American
- One is sure to succeed at a task or event on the third try.
- time and tide wait for no man
- Opportunities will not wait; action should be undertaken without delay.
- time heals all wounds
- Negative feelings eventually fade away.
- time is money
- Money is wasted (in lost wages, missed opportunities, etc.) when a person's time is not used productively; time is valuable and should not be wasted.
- to each his own
- Every person is entitled to their personal preferences and tastes.
- to err is human
- Everyone makes mistakes.
- to thine own self be true
- Be yourself; be true to yourself; do not engage in self-deception.
- tomorrow is another day
- Tomorrow will bring new opportunities and a fresh start for one's endeavors.
- too many cooks spoil the broth
- If too many people participate in a task, especially in a leading role, the task will not be done very well.
- two heads are better than one
- Some tasks may be accomplished more easily by two (or more) people working together than by one working alone.
- unity is strength
- Being united makes people stronger.
- variety is the spice of life
- Variety is what makes life interesting.
- walls have ears
- There is always a risk of being overheard, so one should be careful about what one says.
- well begun is half done
- Much depends on the beginning of an endeavor.
- what doesn't kill you makes you stronger
- Hardship builds moral character.
- what goes around comes around
- A person's actions, whether good or bad, will often have consequences for that person.
- what's done is done
- Events that have already taken place cannot be changed and actions that have already been committed cannot be undone, so it is best not to dwell on them.
- what's sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander
- If something is acceptable for one person, it is acceptable for another (often of the opposite gender).
- when in Rome, do as the Romans do
- When situated in a foreign place, it is wise to follow the local customs.
- when life gives you lemons, make lemonade
- You should always make the best out of difficult situations.
- when the cat's away the mice will play
- In the absence of a controlling entity, subordinates will take advantage of circumstances.
- where there is a will there is a way
- If someone wants or wills something strongly enough, a way can be found to make it happen.
- where there's smoke, there's fire American, Australian, British, Canadian, New Zealand
- If there is a hint of something occurring, it is probably true, although such rumors should be taken with a grain of salt.
- you are what you eat
- Personal health and wellbeing is determined by one's eating habits, in both positive and negative ways.
- you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink
- You can show someone how to do something, but you can't make them do it.
- you can't judge a book by its cover
- It is not possible to make reliable judgments about things or people by considering external appearances alone.
- you can't make a silk purse of a sow's ear
- It is not possible to produce something refined, admirable, or valuable from something which is unrefined, unpleasant, or of little or no value.
- you can't make an omelette without breaking eggs
- In order to achieve something, it is inevitable and necessary that some mistakes are made or some sacrifices must occur.
- you can't teach an old dog new tricks
- It is impossible to change people's habits, traits, or mindset.
- you don't get something for nothing
- One cannot expect to receive some benefit if one does not pay for it in some way or does not face a counterbalancing hazard or harm.
- you get what you pay for informal
- In commercial transactions, the prices increase, as the quality of goods and services increases, i.e., the more one pays, the higher-quality the merchandise.
- you only go around once
- A person has only one lifetime, and should therefore take every opportunity to enjoy a wide variety of experiences in order to maximize their achievements and satisfaction.
- you scratch my back and I'll scratch yours
- If you do me a favor then I will do you a favor; quid pro quo.
- you're never too old to learn
- It is possible to learn new things at any age; one should follow one's desires and dreams.
Proverbs as characterization
Who quotes proverbs, and which ones, says a great deal. A grandmother who answers everything with a saying, a con man who bends one to his purpose, and a teenager who mangles one on purpose are three different people before they say anything else.
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